January 24, 2022

 

Overview

Overall today was a great day. I spent the majority of my working time focused on client work, which is my main focus for Monday. It may not seem like a lot but this is the first time that I have been able to do it and it felt amazing.

I felt like I was able to get a lot more done in s shorter amount of time.

Learnings

Multi-tasking is bullshit. It just does not work. Focus on doing one thing at a time.

Some people do not deserve your time

There are some people out there who just want to make you feel like crap. They want to bring you down and make you feel worthless.

They will use you at every chance they get.

They are not worth your time.

The good news is that in all the people I have less than 1% of the people are like this.

Stop wasting your time

I have wasted so much of my time on two things.

First is trying to get people to like me and caring what they think about me. You have nothing to prove to these people. You are good enough.

Second is wasting my time holding grudges and anger. Life is fragile so as much as you should not waste your time on people who do not deserve it, don’t hold grudges. Let go and focus on the people that matter. Trust me this is harder to do than it is to say.

Reading

“The Like Switch” by Jack Schafer and Marvin Karlins